Listening to my new record, people intuitively understand the change in me," she told in 1993."You see," she added, "sex isn't just fire and heat, it's natural beauty. It's letting go, giving and getting what you need."Moreover, Jackson had a very particular vision for her album's sound, the corresponding music videos and every other aspect of the The famously introverted Jackson was raised a Jehovah's Witness (she admittedly had a "sheltered background") but, like Michael, she distanced herself from the religion when she left the family fold. Intimacy."The increasingly untenable situation hit an impasse once Eissa was born and Jackson decided to move on with her life."Janet is a very shy women and hates confrontation and avoids it at all cost," our source says.